The Divorce Test

This brief "Divorce Test" can help determine whether your marriage is on the right track or is it headed for divorce? Answer these questions to find out whether its worth giving your marriage another chance.

1. Are you able to forgive past wrongs or make amends?

 Absolutely not

 Maybe

 Yes, of course

2. Is there a pattern of abuse, drug addiction or repeated infidelity by one or both of the spouses?

Somewhat, one or more of these scenarios has occurred in the past.

Yes, one or more of these scenarios frequently arises.

 No, none of these scenarios has ever occurred.

3. Are either of you willing to change or adapt to your present circumstances?

Maybe.

Definitely.

Absolutely not.

4. Are you committed to seeing yourself as 100% innocent and your spouse as 100% guilty regarding the problems in your relationship?

No

Yes

Sometimes

5. Do you believe arguing is healthy?

 Yes

 Sometimes

 No

6. Do you have trouble communicating with your spouse?

 Yes, all the time.

 Yes, sometimes.

 No, never.

7. Are you satisfied with the sex life you have with your spouse?

Yes, completely.

 Yes, somewhat.

No, not at all.

8. Is money a major cause of arguments in your relationship?

 Yes, always.

 Yes, somewhat.

 No, never.

9. Do you trust your spouse completely?

Yes, most of the time.

No, not at all.

 Yes, all the time.

10. Do you believe that your marriage is worth saving?

Yes, I really want to make it work.

 Sometimes I do.

No.

11. Have you researched, planned, and prepared yourself legally and financially for divorce?

I have done some research and am somewhat prepared.

Yes, I am prepared.

No, I'm not ready at all.